Mood Swings & Milestones...!!!

  So, it hit us—me and my husband, both—like a midlife fashion crisis: we have nothing decent to wear. Absolutely nothing. Everything we own is either faded, stretched beyond its original DNA, or so boring it could put a Red Bull to sleep. Now, I’ll admit I have this adorable, totally unnecessary habit of spring-cleaning my wardrobe every three months. If I haven’t worn it, liked it, or remembered it existed—I Marie Kondo it out of my life. And since I also extend this unsolicited wardrobe audit service to my husband, we’ve been “decluttering” aggressively for over a year now... but without actually shopping. This, my friends, is how you end up with two adults and zero wearable clothes. So, last weekend we finally decided to fix this dire situation. Destination: the factory outlet mall near Bangalore Airport. It’s basically Disneyland for grown-ups who love a good discount. Big brands, bigger discounts, and the small joy of pretending you’re “investing in timeless fashion”...

  Should It Feel Different? I couldn’t post a blog yesterday because I was off doing something milestone-y —celebrating my 5th wedding anniversary. Sounds big, right? Like one of those milestones that’s supposed to feel different, sparkly, emotional, “I still choose you” kind of thing. But here’s the kicker: it didn’t feel different at all. What did feel different was that we both love each other a little more than we did before—which I guess is the whole point? So… yay us? Before this day, I had grand plans in my head. Picture this: 5th anniversary, sipping wine in Prague, twirling in cobblestone streets, scenic selfies with castles in the backdrop, matching scarves, etc. Reality check? We both woke up, dragged ourselves to the gym, worked out for two hours like true middle-aged warriors, came back and had bun and chai in the balcony like two retirees who just discovered peace. He was working from home; I was busy pretending I’m on vacation in my own house (aka doing random...

  Is He for Real…??? I’m a finance professional with 16+ years of solid, grind-it-out experience—FP&A, Strategic Planning, you name it. So imagine my surprise ( read: utter disbelief ) when I joined my current company only to be treated like I just graduated from Email Etiquette 101 for Beginners . Apparently, my manager believes my emails need "training." Yes, you read that right—training. We’re not talking about business forecasts or long-range plans here. We’re talking commas , full stops , and the tone of my 'Hi, Hope You’re Well' . My choice of words? Problematic. My call scheduling? Problematic. My opinions? Oh, they exist —they just get treated like spam in everyone’s inbox. But wait, it gets better. This same manager insists I must "lead," "own decisions," and "have a voice." A voice that gets ignored daily , like a fire drill announcement during lunch hour. So, naturally, I tried to have a grown-up conversation. I sai...

Waiting…!!!!! A few months ago, I thought not finding the right job was scary. But now I’ve discovered something even scarier—actually finding it. And not just it , but the dream version with extra toppings and a side of “holy crap, what now?” Let me rewind... I’ve been in a job that pays me way too much for what I do. (Yes, I know. Cry me a river, right?) But still—I was itching to move into a proper finance leadership role. One with real scope, real challenge, and ideally, less soul erosion. After months of applications and interviews that went nowhere, I finally took my husband’s advice (which, let’s be honest, is already a big deal 😅) and reached out to my ex-boss—who just happens to be a Group CFO now. Casual. She mentioned a Country Finance Director role, and I thought, sure, let’s shoot my shot . Next thing I know, I’m going through rounds of interviews, talking about all the good stuff I’ve done over 16 years, and realizing— oh right, I actually have done cool things . It fe...

Hi there! If you’ve stumbled upon this blog— bless your curiosity . 👀 I’m just a regular overthinking human navigating the beautifully messy maze of adulthood, career decisions, identity crises, motivation sprints, and occasional existential dread. You know… the usual. 😏 'Mood Swings & Milestone' is my digital corner to rant, reflect, and sometimes romanticize the rollercoaster that is life. Some days I might be sharing profound lessons, and on others—whether I should cut my hair or quit my job. I’m not promising life hacks, but I can guarantee honesty, a few laughs, and maybe the comforting reminder that you’re not the only one spiraling at 2 a.m. Thanks for being here. Stick around if you're into unfiltered thoughts with a touch of humor and a lot of heart. 💓 Let’s ride these mood swings and celebrate the milestones— together . 💫